Ages 4-18 · Sandoval County, NM county

Respite Co-op — Sandoval County, NM

Sandoval County is one of 33 counties in New Mexico. Divided, each family negotiates alone and gets whatever the district happens to offer. Together, forty families in Sandoval County, NM know exactly what the district has already approved — and can ask for it by name.

Paid respite is scarce and expensive. A co-op is families covering each other on a rota — trained, insured where required, and mutual. Two hours of genuine rest changes a week.

A monthly meeting in Sandoval County

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Who needs cover, and when
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Matching families by need and by child
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Training and safeguarding requirements locally
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Rota for the month
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What went well and what did not

What families in Sandoval County, NM ask first

Is this safe?

The group sets its own vetting standard and states it publicly.

Does it cost anything?

Time, mostly. Cover you receive is cover you give.

My child has medical needs.

Say so. Matching accounts for it.

From a room in Sandoval County to a national count

Step 1
Your circle, in Sandoval County, NM
Eight to twenty families who meet monthly. Local operations stay local: your meeting time, your venue, your rules, your members. Nothing about joining changes how your group runs.
Step 2
The Sandoval County chapter
Every circle in Sandoval County reports one number — how many families it speaks for — and agrees on three asks per school year. The chapter is who a school board, a superintendent or a county commission talks to.
Step 3
The New Mexico coalition
County chapters send one delegate each. The coalition tracks state bills, testifies at hearings, and works alongside the structures New Mexico families already have a legal right to: the state's federally funded Parent Training and Information Center under IDEA, its Protection and Advocacy agency, and its Developmental Disabilities Council.
Step 4
The national assembly
State coalitions meet quarterly. One count, one set of federal priorities — IDEA funding, evaluation timelines, restraint and seclusion, transition services, and the gap between what the law says and what a district does.

New Mexico families are not starting from nothing. Under IDEA, every state has a federally funded Parent Training and Information Center; every state also has a Protection and Advocacy agency and a Developmental Disabilities Council. Those exist to be used. What is missing almost everywhere is a local group organized enough to use them together. Sandoval County is one of 33 counties in New Mexico, and each one needs its own chapter.

If you already run something in Sandoval County

Keep running it. There is no merger, no renaming, no handing over your members or your money. A group that has been meeting in Sandoval County for years knows things no statewide organization can generate on its own. Affiliation adds two things and takes nothing: your families are counted in the New Mexico total, and your ask is worded the same as everyone else’s so it cannot be answered separately.

Affiliate a Sandoval County group · What autonomy means here · Start a county chapter

The rules that make it work

Local groups keep local control

Your meetings, your members, your money, your name. Affiliation adds a count and a shared ask. It never adds a boss.

Nobody is diagnosed here

This is a working group of parents, not a clinical service. Families share what they did and what happened. Nobody prescribes, nobody treats, nobody assesses.

Experience is shared as experience

What one district approved is a fact worth passing on. What worked for one child is a data point, not a prescription. That distinction is enforced in every meeting.