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Parent Coaching and Parenting Classes icon — Ellis Abel Learns Book 1, accountability, for children ages 2-10

Ages 2-10 · Book 1, Accountability · 4,299 places

Parent Coaching and Parenting Classes

Shared language for a group of parents who arrive with ten different vocabularies and one shared exhausting hour of the day.

Built on Ellis Abel and the Red Block — “Big feelings. Small choices. Real accountability.” A character series, not a curriculum with a worldview attached.

The five sessions

  1. Session 1

    Read one chapter, no questions the first night

  2. Session 2

    Second night, ask what part they would change and why

  3. Session 3

    Third night, tell them a time you got this wrong yourself

  4. Session 4

    Fourth night, they pick the family's one step for the week

  5. Session 5

    Fifth night, come back to it and say out loud what changed

Questions leaders ask

Is parent coaching and parenting classes in your area a religious program?

No. Ellis Abel is a character series. Each volume carries one named core value — this one is accountability — and the story does the teaching. There is no doctrine in it, nothing to opt out of, and it is used in public schools, libraries and secular programs as readily as anywhere else.

What ages does this work for?

Ages 2-10. The story is read aloud, so a child who cannot read yet is fully in it, and the discussion prompts are written in two bands so one adult can hold a mixed-age room.

How does this fit alongside the work your area professionals already do?

As shared language, not as treatment. It is a character story with a routine attached — nobody is assessed, diagnosed or scored in it — so it sits beside your own practice rather than claiming any part of it.

Can we use it with families as well as children?

That is where it works best. The take-home page gives a caregiver the same words the child heard, which is usually the missing half.

The rules that make it work

This is a character story, not a behaviour plan

Ellis Abel is a core-values series. No child is assessed, scored, diagnosed or labelled anywhere in it. It gives a room shared language, and it stops there.

Big feelings are not misbehaviour

A four-year-old at full volume is not defying anyone. Treating the feeling as an offence teaches a child to hide it, which is the opposite of the skill.

Name first, always

Every attempt to fix a feeling before naming it fails, and it fails loudly. The order in the book is the order in the room.

Ownership is small and specific

"Be responsible" means nothing at four. One job, done alone, every day, means everything, and it generalises on its own.

Adults go first

The adult naming their own feeling out loud in front of the child does more work than any session. Children copy what they see under pressure.

Routines beat reminders

A routine a child can recite is theirs. A reminder an adult repeats is the adult's, and it has to be repeated forever.

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The rest of the series

Book 2BelongingBeing brave means showing up anyway.Book 3ConfidenceTurn fear into confidence, one step at a time.Book 4DiscernmentChoose what you feed within.Book 5EmpathyWhat matters more than earning a Gold Star?Book 6FaithDifference isn’t weakness. It’s a gift.