Ages 2-8 · Sutter County, CA county · Book 1, Accountability

Nannies and Au Pairs — Sutter County, CA

Preschool staff in Sutter County, CA are asked to teach self-regulation with a ratio of one to ten and a curriculum written by someone who has never held that room. Sutter County is one of 58 counties in California.

The person with the child for most of the waking day needs the same language the parents use, handed over properly rather than assumed.

The book behind it

Ellis Abel and the Red Block

“Big feelings. Small choices. Real accountability.”

Name the feeling before reacting.
Take ownership of everyday choices.
Small routines can restore a sense of control.

Ellis Abel is a character series. Volume 1 carries the value accountability, and the story does the teaching. There is no doctrine in it and nothing for a family to opt out of, which is why it runs in Sutter County, CA in public schools, libraries, clubs and living rooms without changing a word.

Read about Ellis Abel and the Red Block · The whole series

Five sessions in Sutter County

Session 1
Read one chapter, no questions the first night
Session 2
Second night, ask what part they would change and why
Session 3
Third night, tell them a time you got this wrong yourself
Session 4
Fourth night, they pick the family's one step for the week
Session 5
Fifth night, come back to it and say out loud what changed

What Sutter County, CA leaders ask first

Is nannies and au pairs in Sutter County, CA a religious program?

No. Ellis Abel is a character series. Each volume carries one named core value — this one is accountability — and the story does the teaching. There is no doctrine in it, nothing to opt out of, and it is used in public schools, libraries and secular programs as readily as anywhere else.

What ages does this work for?

Ages 2-8. The story is read aloud, so a child who cannot read yet is fully in it, and the discussion prompts are written in two bands so one adult can hold a mixed-age room.

Can our Sutter County, CA staff run this without training?

Yes. Every session is a read-aloud with the questions written out, a timing column, and a note for when the room falls apart. A new teacher can run it on their second day.

How does this fit an early-learning framework?

It sits in the social and emotional development strand as a read-aloud with a follow-up action. It is a story and a routine, not an assessment, so it slots into circle time rather than replacing anything.

How a session actually runs in Sutter County

Step 1
Name it before you fix it
A child who cannot name what is happening to them can only act it out. The first session gives Sutter County, CA children one word for the feeling — their word, not the adult's — and that word alone shortens the storm.
Step 2
The gap between feeling and doing
Ellis Abel feels it and then chooses, and the story slows that second down far enough for a four-year-old to see it. That gap is the entire skill. It is not maturity and it is not temperament — it is a habit, and habits are trained.
Step 3
One thing that is actually theirs
Ownership at this age is not a lecture about responsibility. It is one specific job a child in Sutter County, CA controls completely and can do without help — and the discovery that controlling one thing feels good.
Step 4
The routine that holds on the bad day
Anything that only works on good days is decoration. The last session builds a three-step routine the child can say back, and then runs it unchanged for a week, including the evening everything goes wrong.

The rules that make it work

This is a character story, not a behaviour plan

Ellis Abel is a core-values series. No child is assessed, scored, diagnosed or labelled anywhere in it. It gives a room shared language, and it stops there.

Big feelings are not misbehaviour

A four-year-old at full volume is not defying anyone. Treating the feeling as an offence teaches a child to hide it, which is the opposite of the skill.